by Roger Loria, Jr.
From
time to time, we receive visits from people who cannot house their trophies,
medals and/or plaques anymore. For a
variety of reasons, they just can’t keep the
physical awards anymore. However, unlike other reactions to such a
predicament (that is, trying to get rid of objects they can’t hold onto
anymore), they don’t try to sell them at tag sales - and more remarkably - they
will not discard them into the trash either.
I am particularly intrigued by this - which is the fact that no matter
how much people cannot keep the physical
awards, something keeps them from
just throwing these objects out with the rest of the things they can’t keep
anymore.
Now be
advised that these are not Olympic Medals or World Cups that we receive in
order to “re-purpose”. These are
generally common awards earned in youth, or early adulthood, which have remained
in somewhat good condition, but have collected too much dust over the years. Nonetheless, whether these are locally won
awards or some well-known icons, these objects have never been - at least in
our experience - rendered “disposable”. Perhaps
psychologically, the earner of these
awards does not want to negate the
significance of their achievement by simply tossing the physical commemoration
of it in the trash. The physical object
may not be needed anymore, for whatever reason.
But it would be disheartening to “dispose of the achievement itself” (in effigy) by unceremoniously trashing
it. The word “desecration” comes to
mind.
Apparently, the prevailing attitude in this phenomenon (which is unique
to the world of retail awards) is:
This object, which represents a moment in time in which a certain level
of excellence was achieved, should not be buried in a forgettable heap of
garbage. It represents something much
more significant than that. It took time
and effort to prepare and perform the task required to earn the achievement and
- unlike money - time and effort is non-refundable. Therefore, the object that was given to the
person, who spent that non-refundable amount of time and effort to achieve
something special, should be passed on to someone else who may be in the midst
of achieving something special as well.
So
when someone comes in the store to basically say, “I’m down-sizing and I have to unload these trophies, medals and
plaques. Can you use them?”, I
basically give them two options: If the
items are in good condition, you can leave them here in our store and I can
recycle them and sell them at 'bargain basement' prices - or - you can charitably
donate them to a local boys & girls club.
In many communities, the local boys & girls clubs are a safe-haven
for youth to have a place to engage in confidence-building competitions that
will also teach them other life skills, such as how to deal with both defeat and victory (i.e. sportsmanship,
humility, etc.). These
clubs are often under-funded, so these donated awards become a crucial
element in helping to maintain the invaluable community services that these clubs provide.
So if you’re reading this and wondering what
to do with the awards that you earned 'way back when', but can no longer keep, we give you these two aforementioned
options. But we recommend the latter!